Condoms & Dams
New Zealand
As a male sex worker, using condoms and or dams is one of the simplest ways to take control of your health and your work.
They’re trusted, effective, and easy to use.
Latex
Latex condoms, effective at preventing STIs/STD's and pregnancy, and they're widely available. If you or a client has a latex allergy, be sure to carry latex-free alternatives to keep everyone safe and comfortable.
Polyurethane & Polyisoprene Condoms
Got a latex allergy—or working with someone who does?
Polyurethane condoms are a solid, latex-free option. They're thin, strong, and offer reliable protection. Click to learn why they’re a great backup (or main pick) for sex workers, plus tips on where to get them and how to use them right.
Flavoured condoms are for mouths, not parts.
Designed to make oral sex safer and tastier—perfect for male sex workers offering oral services. Click to find out how to use them properly, what flavours are out there, and why they’re not for vaginal or anal play.
Internal Condoms
Internal condoms can offer reliable protection during vaginal or anal sex, helping to prevent STIs and pregnancy. While they’re generally safe, they may not be as commonly used with male clients as external condoms, so it’s important to make sure they’re used correctly. Tap for more info on how to use them and where to get them.
Dams/Dental Dams
Rimming and oral come with risks,
help keep it safe and professional.
Use dental dams
Whether you're a male sex worker seeing male or female clients, using a dam over the vulva or anus reduces STI transmission while delivering pleasure.
Dental dams are not just a smart choice—they’re the law.
They protect against STIs during oral sex on vulvas and anuses, keeping both you and your clients safe. Whether you’re seeing male or female clients, it’s important to know how to use them, where to get them, and what to do if you don’t have one. Tap for more details.
Condom Law
Individuals who fail to comply may be fined up to $2,000 NZD.
Legal Responsibilities In New Zealand:
Both the sex worker and the client have a legal duty to prevent STI transmission.
Sex workers can refuse services if a client does not want to use protection—this is legally protected.
Clients who pressure or try to coerce workers into unsafe sex may be reported and face legal consequences.
Stealthing is Illegal Removing a condom during sex without the other person's consent—known as stealthing—can be a criminal offense in New Zealand.
Although current legislation defines rape narrowly (penetration of the vagina by a penis without consent), stealthing may still result in charges such as:
Sexual violation under the Crimes Act 1961, Section 128 view here,
Indecent assault, or
Fraudulent sexual connection.