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β οΈ High Risk
π« Breath Play
(Erotic Asphyxiation/Hypoxyphilia/Breath Control Play)
π¨ Breath Control
(Non-Choking Forms)
βοΈ Sounding
(Urethral Play)
πͺ Piquerism
π©Έ Blood Play
(Sanguinophilia)
β οΈ Edgeplay
(General Concept)
π± Autoassassinophilia
π€― Vorarephilia
(If Acted Out Physically)
π Chemsex
(Chemical Sex)
π« Breath Play
π What is it?
Breath play involves controlling or restricting someoneβs breathing (via choking, smothering, masks, etc.) to intensify sensation or arousal.
β οΈ This is one of the riskiest types of kink play due to the danger of unconsciousness, brain damage, or death.
π€ Whatβs the appeal?
ποΈ Heightened intensity and trust
π₯ Edge-of-danger adrenaline rush
πΉοΈ Control/submission symbolism
π¦ Oxygen deprivation can intensify orgasms
π¦Ί Safety Concerns
π Accidental death
β Risk of death or permanent brain damage
π§ Brain damage (due to oxygen deprivation)
π Stroke (due to damaged blood vessels in the neck)
π Cardiac arrest
π Voice changes,
π¨ Neck pain
π§© Memory loss,
π Depression.
Autoerotic asphyxiation (when done alone) is particularly dangerous due to the lack of immediate help if something goes wrong.
π§ Can trigger trauma/PTSD in clients with past abuse
π« Risk of airway collapse, vomit inhalation, or cardiac arrest
β NEVER perform if the client is intoxicated, ill, or on blood pressure meds
β Avoid all βsleeper holdsβ
π§° How to Prepare:
Suggest 4-7-8 breathing, which is a safer way to breathe play. Learn more here.
β Both sex worker and client to sign an agreement (like this) before beginning appointment. Please note this is not legal advice.
β Use hand-over-mouth, gas masks, or safe-position pillows (NOT neck pressure)
β Agree on non-verbal safe words (e.g., tapping out)
β Learn about vagal response and safe duration limits (usually <10 seconds)
β Keep clientβs neck clear of pressure points and airways
π€ How to Conduct a Professional Session
Discuss health risks upfront and require verbal & written consent
Stay completely sober and focused - no multitasking
Use mirrors or direct face-to-face position to monitor signs
Keep water, cold towel, and aftercare kit ready
Decompress with calming, grounding aftercare
π Resources
The complete Manual of Breathplay PDF
Breath-Play & Risk: What You Need To Know
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