Client Zone
⚠️ Consent Can Be Withdrawn at Any Time⚠️
Questions to ask:
Focus on clearly understanding what's being offered, setting expectations, and ensuring safety and comfort for both of you. Here are some examples, keeping in mind the goal is to be respectful and direct:
About Services & Expectations:
"Hi, are you available for in-call or out-call today?" (Understanding location options)
"Could you tell me a bit about the services you offer?" (General inquiry, allowing them to lead)
"Are there specific things you enjoy or don't offer?" (Directly addressing boundaries and preferences)
"What's your usual duration for a session?" (Time expectations)
"What's your rate for [specific service/duration]?" (Clear financial agreement)
"Do you have any requirements or boundaries I should be aware of?" (Showing respect for their rules)
"Are there things you're particularly comfortable or experienced with?" (Exploring possibilities within their comfort zone)
"Just to be clear, [reiterate a specific service or boundary discussed]?" (Confirming mutual understanding)
Logistics & Safety:
In-call:
"What area are you located in?"
(If not already specified)
Out-call:
"Are there areas you typically travel to?" "What kind of setting are you comfortable with?"
"Is there an additional charge for travel?"
"Is there anything you need from me beforehand?"
"Do you have a preferred method of payment?"
Comfort & Connection:
"What are you hoping for from our time together?" (
Understanding their desires, do not use this as a way of free dirty talk
"Is there anything specific you're interested in exploring?" (Open-ended, client-led)
Questions to AVOID as a client (they can be intrusive, disrespectful, or unprofessional):
👉 Questions about their personal life, unless they volunteer the information.
Eg What's your real name? How old are you actually? Where did you go to school?
👉 Judgmental or shaming questions about their profession.
Eg whore, slut etc
👉 Demands or assumptions that disregard their stated boundaries.
Eg I really want to fuck you! Can you rim me? (when they don't offer that service
👉 Questions that imply illegal activities. Eg Do you know where to get drugs from
👉 Haggling after an initial rate is provided There is a lot of cost's that are calculated into a rate. It not pure profit.
👉 Can I see your STI/STD's results
NO - this may contain personal information that the sex worker keeps away from the you the client. You can however ask when they last had a STI/STD check up/
Important Considerations for a Client:
Age: You and the sex worker must be aged 18 plus. You the client can be prosecuted for seeing a sex worker under 18. If in doubt - see someone else.
Be Respectful:
Even in a hypothetical scenario, using respectful language is crucial.
Be Clear and Concise:
Avoid ambiguity to ensure mutual understanding.
Focus on Boundaries:
Inquire about and respect the worker's boundaries.
Safety First:
Get a STI/STD test regularly. Always wear a condom for oral and anal sex. If you contract an STI/STD tell the sex worker(s) you have been with - even the ones you have worn a condom with. Just as a sex worker should tell you. Condoms can break - mistakes can happen.
Don't be a time waster
Unable to get an erection:
You still must pay the sex worker the agreed amount. Once clothes have been removed - you must pay the agreed amount. Sex workers always try to get hard, sometimes its not possible. That's life - just because you didn't enjoy a movie doesn't mean you don't have to pay. Ask for oral sex, a massage or settle for a chat. Easiest option is not to see the sex worker again.
Lack of Agreed-Upon Activities:
Easiest option is not to see the sex worker again. If you do want to see the sex worker again mention that you would like to explore (insert activity) more. Remember consent can be removed at anytime by the sex worker and client. You still must pay the sex worker the agreed amount.
Rushed or Abbreviated Time:
Easiest option is not to see the sex worker again. If you do want to see the sex worker again mention "The session felt much shorter than the [agreed-upon duration]. Can we make sure we agree on the starting time?" Depending on the sex worker shower time can be included in the session - very normal. You still must pay the sex worker the agreed upon amount.
Unprofessional Demeanor:
Sex workers can have bad days, be considerate that sex work isn't your normal job. Easiest option is not to see the sex worker again. If you do want to see the sex worker again mention a specific behavior, e.g., being on their phone, seeming disinterested."
Boundary Issues:
"I felt like my boundaries weren't fully respected when I [mention a specific instance]." It's important you tell the sex worker as they may not be aware. Your consent matters.
Misrepresentation of Services:
Easiest option is not to see the sex worker again. If you do want to see the sex worker again mention "The impression I got from your profile/messages was [expectation], but the reality was quite different. I still want to you again but thought I would let you know". NEVER fat shame, or mention the size of the sex workers penis. People measure from different sections.
Hygiene Concerns (if applicable, handled delicately):
"There were some hygiene aspects that made me uncomfortable."
"I'm bringing this up because I value clear communication and want to ensure that future interactions, either with you or other professionals, are more aligned with expectations. What can you say about this?"
Every sex worker will handle each situation differently. Always try be respectful and understand you are the one paying for an interaction, chemistry isn't always there. There are usually plenty of sex workers to choose from.
Complaints
What to expect and avoid an awkward service:
1) GIve the agreed upon amount/cash to the sex worker straight away. This helps avoid awkward siliences. It is also the best way to show respect to your sex worker
2) Be honest about what you like to do and/or explore. The sex worker isn't a mind reader. You can mention what sort of porn you like to get the conversation flowing. If stuck - ask what the sex worker likes and dislikes. Setting boundaries is important.
3) Don't rush into action straight away - a 5 minute plus conversation can be a great way to build chemistry. Have a drink.
4) Be respectful of the sex worker - some fantasies ie daddy son can be concerning to some. Don't come with a measuring stick to measure the sex workers penis.
5) Once you have finished - it's okay to walk away or stay. Do what makes you feel comfortable
6) Say thank you - leave a tip if you like. It's one of the hardest jobs out there. Make sure you have paid the sex worker before you leave. It's not worth the guilt or fear.